Religious zealots presume that all the time no matter the denomination, possibly the main reason why Jehovah's witnesses go door to door...
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In my later years, after dropping the ball so many times on religion, The one lesson I take from all spiritualism is, To love other people, In my eyes, That means that other people and making them feel important and respected is the most important lesson in spiritualism, to make other people feel cared for.
And, Even If I didn't hit the mark perfectly, how much fault can I cause, making other people feel like someone cares, It's been said love covers a multitude of sin. So that's the lesson I try to follow. In my eyes, Love is not condemning of others, It's edifying them.
I'm not perfect, I, from reading almost any doctrine, I don't think I'm expected to be. So I try to treat others kindly, Edify them, And Maybe that will cover for my many flaws, That's what I've come to believe about Spiritualism.