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coubob

Celestial
I have gay/lesbian cousins and it really hurt my uncles and aunts but in the end they seen how it made them happier, which opened their eyes a bit. One is half guam and he`s a blackbelt in karate doing time in a California prison, the other is a female nurse, you would not be able to tell though not like some around i`ve seen. I have a friend since 8 years old that is a crossdresser that used to go out on the corner to make $$ in other states where no one knew him. but hes a sociopath and has told me a few thing i cant share,but i still love the guy like a bro. I hoped Tanner seen what a great guy and family that ya`ll are, and steps up like a man should.
 

Shadowprophet

Truthiness
I have gay/lesbian cousins and it really hurt my uncles and aunts but in the end they seen how it made them happier, which opened their eyes a bit. One is half guam and he`s a blackbelt in karate doing time in a California prison, the other is a female nurse, you would not be able to tell though not like some around i`ve seen. I have a friend since 8 years old that is a crossdresser that used to go out on the corner to make $$ in other states where no one knew him. but hes a sociopath and has told me a few thing i cant share,but i still love the guy like a bro. I hoped Tanner seen what a great guy and family that ya`ll are, and steps up like a man should.
You are the first person that's asked about Tanner since I had met him, I'm happy to say, I met Tanner, And Honestly,

I love that guy, He has manors And respect, He treats Jordan like she's his whole world. At this stage, Tanner seems to be a stand-up guy, I like him a lot. I honestly think they both really love each other and, Even though they both still say the are bisexual. I think that's mostly them and their loyalties to their group. They are very into one another And Seem to care deeply for each other, Outside of the complicated LGBTQ club they are in, They seem like a good couple, I could see how happy they both were just to be together.

I still have reservations, Because they are both so young, But emotionally, they seem to really care about each other deeply. Tanner has my approval. :tumbsup:
 

Sheltie

Fratty and out of touch.
Sorry but we're losing sight of the real issues here -- your stepdaughter is pregnant and a decision needs to be made about what her next move will be. When you get right down to it, her and her friend's sexuality is pretty irrelevant at this point.
 

Shadowprophet

Truthiness
Sorry but we're losing sight of the real issues here -- your stepdaughter is pregnant and a decision needs to be made about what her next move will be. When you get right down to it, her and her friend's sexuality is pretty irrelevant at this point.
Right now, It's so early, We know decisions must be made about the two of them, Jordan is keeping the baby of corse, But we don't want to force her into a relationship. Or make her feel like she is stuck with no choice, At this stage, it's not about Us and what we want. We want Jordan to know she is taken care of and any decision she makes right now is because it's what she wants. They seem to want to be with one another, It seems like that's where it's headed. But, No matter what Jordan chooses To be with the guy for real or not. That baby has plenty of grandparents who will see that she and the baby have no issues. It's still early, We are letting things develop, The plan is, To do everything as grandparents for Jordan and the baby. We have even been looking into getting her the house up the street, But we want it in her name only, He's been in her life a matter of months we aren't buying him a house.. you know? financially, She has nothing to worry about, Nor will the baby. But we don't want to make her feel forced to be with someone because she's pregnant.

The backdrop to all this is, They are 18, To be truthful, How many relationships begin like this at that age and do last for the long haul? We are planing her security of a future unless he doesn't stick around, It would honestly be silly to think he would when most cases like this end with a breakup. So, We are logically planing for a futureproof situation. If he sticks around, Good for him, Good for both of them, But. We have to Jordanproof her future.
 
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