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  1. The shadow

    The shadow The shadow knows!

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    please join me and my family as we celebrate the life of Sarah Marie Watson my sister. Sarah unexpectedly died this morning. she leaves behind 2 children David age 10 and Laura age 5.
    Her husband William and a rabbit named bugs.
    We were not close..
    and many thing that should have been said will never be said.
    and so it goes..
    All those wasted years apart..
    I am safe not only that she is gone but we never truly healed as a family..
     
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  2. Shadowprophet

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    I'm sorry to hear this brother, :( Me and my brother were never close, But siblings don't have to have deep ties, that is just a formality, You already have the deepest tie two people that aren't clones can have, I'm so sorry to hear this news :(


    Remember, It doesn't take permission or someones approval, to love and care about them. What I mean is, It doesn't always require a mutual resolution to overcome hardships one has with someone else. Know that, You can lay your burdens down, And love the fact that she was and is your sister, And no one else could fill her spot. Cherish her place in your soul.
     
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  3. The shadow

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    we drifted apart over my dads care in his last days.
    Now she is gone and the rift will never heal.
    I hope this never happens between our kids..
     
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  4. Shadowprophet

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    We can always hope brother, I have found, at least in my own experience, It's actually more rare for siblings to be terribly close after they are grown. However, I'm not being a downer about this, Siblings can be close, And there is always Hope brother. I never got to raise my own biological children, So there is a lot of advice I can't give from experience. But, Family values are important, Try your best to convey them to the little ones.
     
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  5. Toroid

    Toroid Founding Member

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    I'm sorry for your loss.
     
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  6. pigfarmer

    pigfarmer tall, thin, irritable

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    Very sorry to hear that.
     
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  7. Rikki

    Rikki High Priestess

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    MY Friends:
    after 93 wonderful years My Grandmother left us to be with the Goddess. She was the most sweet and loving soul... I know I will see her again and laugh and love...So please join me and my family in celebrating our loss and the life of Helen Burrus..
    1927-2020
    A life well lived!

    My father is lost in his grief.. he thinks it is he who should have died.
    My grandma went to sleep and stepped beyond the veil. we can all be so lucky
    Blessed be
    Rikki
     
  8. The shadow

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    Great grandma Burrus was a rock. She treasured every second with our kids. She especially treasured Samantha.
    I share my wife's grief.
    My kids except Samantha are also in grief.
    But 93 years.. As my wife said a life well lived.
     
  9. The shadow

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    there is no joy today..we will miss you..
     
  10. The shadow

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    Last night Rikki's mother was rushed to the hospital. She is on life support. Her kidneys have failed. She is on life support. Death may be near..
     
  11. The shadow

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    She will be off life support tomorrow.
    Her condition has been upgraded from critical to serious.
     
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  12. pigfarmer

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    just saw this. hope she's ok
     
  13. The shadow

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    Update: the is awake and aware now. She will be taken off the resperator today. They took a large amount or water out of her lungs.
    We have a confirmation of acute kidney failure.
    After she passed her 1st 24 hours in the hospital the crisis period was mostly over. Our family hopes for the best while we prepare for the worst.
     
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  14. Rikki

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    I thank all who gave prayer a good thought or white energy.
    I believe my mother will live.
    Blessed Be
    Rikki
     
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  15. nivek

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    She has been in my thoughts sending focused energy to help her heal, I hope she will recover through this...


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  16. Rikki

    Rikki High Priestess

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    well... I think she may be out of the woods. But she faces time in a long term care facility. and since she has no power of attorney I need to help my father (who is barely functional now emotionally.) decide on end of life issues. I feel helpless. I CAN NOT VISIT HER! My mother loves my kids more than life. My children are in depression. as for me, my husband is there. my rock I'm leaning on him now. My whole world is collapsing.
    please pray for Samantha Laura Burrus..
    Blessed Be
    Rikki
     
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  17. August

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    I really hope and pray that your mother comes thru all this. Its a very hard time for you and your family and I send you my love and best wishes in this terrible time. xx
     
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  18. Rikki

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    she is off the ventilator. My mom is on the road to recovery
    Blessed Be
    Rikki
     
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  19. August

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    Really glad Rikki I am so pleased to hear that. w18
     
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  20. Rikki

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    tomorrow she goes to a normal hospital room On Monday she is transferred to a half way house then by the end of march home. My and Kates rituals and Debbie's prayers. Your thoughts prayers and good wishes all helped shape what is a miracle .My mother will survive to visit us again. The hugs of our happy kids await her. And the shouts of "grandma!" Truly she is blessed beyond measure.
    let us pray:
    My Lord and Lady, I thank You,
    For the land and sky and sea.
    There is so much You give me.
    So much that You share
    That it is hard to count the blessings
    And the ways that You care.


    You have given me a home,
    And the trees that are above me.
    You have given me animal friends
    and fellow souls to guide me.
    For without friends,
    Where would we be?


    On this day of light and dark
    I thank You for the balance.
    The mountains ablaze with color
    of the leaves turning into art.
    For the fruit of the vine
    And the apples of the trees.


    I give thanks for all of these and more.
    For the green blades of grass
    And the blue of the sea.
    For all of these and more

    I thank thee!
    BLESSED BE
    RIKKI
     
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