Two moments in time.

The shadow

The shadow knows!
It is a day I have long prepared for but still comes with a lot of nervness and deep thoughts. All of the preliminary things are done. Last night Rikki and I sat down with Kate to dinner. She told us she hoped her marriage lasted as long as ours. (24 years and counting.) She thanked us for a magnificent childhood. And promised to raise her kids in a similar manner. I did something I don't normally do. I prayed along with them if there is a God I hope it blessed them . My girl married...as Rikki said the wheel turns...
 

Rikki

High Priestess
2 years ago when she arrived at Columbus for college Debbie was paired with a sweet beautiful woman named Zoe. Ohio State has a roommate pairing based on a long questionnaire. Zoe helped Debbie not only recover from an abusive relationship with a man but she helped heal the harm done by his sexual and spiritual assault. I watched over her healing from afar. Debbie embraced WICCA . Last night over dinner with me present she loving and tearfully told Zoe "I can't think of anyone else I want to share my life with! " She placed an open box on the table a diamond ring in it. "marry me be my wife share all my joys and sorrows life brings"
I held my breath as Zoe looked in shock. "YES! I thought you never ask! " I was happy to share a moment. My 2nd daughter engaged!
Seeing Kate happy with her wife I have every hope of her happiness.
So much love and joy between them.
A day when all my and my husbands efforts in raising our children were realized.
Blessed be
Rikki
 

The shadow

The shadow knows!
My turn.
When they got home and dropped the news I just lost it. I'm still in a space after Kate got married. I knew this day would come. One is never ready for it. And seeing Ian with Anna I know it won't be long for him. And bless Samantha as she and Chris tossed flower petals on them I'm happy for them. And glad they will face the future together.
The shadow knows!
 

Rikki

High Priestess
Today we said goodbye to my daughter Debbie as she and her partner Zoe returned to Columbus for year 3 of school. I know she will be back for Thanksgiving and Christmas but I would give anything to have them as little girls again. That's why I treasure Samantha so much. Once she gets older we exit a time of our lives that will never come again.
Blessed be
Rikki
 

Rikki

High Priestess
Ren faire ended with the Royal Ball. Bob and I took a spin around the floor as Ian and Anna
Chris and Ellen all enjoying.
The first big moment was when a squire about 9 David of Scott approached Samantha bowed "may I have this dance my lady?"
The two did well SCA teaches kids the fine arts one dance become three and she gave him a lady's favor (her kercif) and he kissed her hand. Speaking of kissing Chris ended up giving Ellen a real kiss when questioned he said "it felt right."
Next up is school. And my heart burst to see my kids growing up socializing and having fun.
Blessed be
Rikki
 

The shadow

The shadow knows!
Rikki and I escorted our son Ian to a local jewelry store. He was there to buy a ring.
"It's time. I'm going to ask her " I told him he was putting the cart before the horse. He argued that they had been together for years. In the end, I agreed to the purchase. He bought a black opal engagement ring. On layaway so it will be paid by prom. I cosigned the financial credit account. After we discussed some aspects of the relationship we did not approve of. He countered with " Dad I'm responsible. No one is getting hurt. Besides I don't question what you two do in private." That ended that. When asked about wanting to get married he said "we were in a past life. We want to be together "
This led to a long discussion between him and Rikki. I support my son. Besides I would only lose him as a son but opposition to his marriage. He promised me that it would not happen until after high school graduation.
And so it goes
 

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Rikki

High Priestess
I was not amused with Bob prying into Ian's private life. As for Ian's wanting to get married, it's really up to him and the goddess. At 17:I'm thinking about him as a man who is ready, responsible, and mature. I told him I didn't give a F*** as long as it was happy and loving. I even told him a few tips to make things memorable . I saw a vision of the future. I hope it happens.
Blessed be
Rikki
 

The shadow

The shadow knows!
In late August, we noticed Chris's voice was changing. We did not push the issue. It's settled into a baritone. Last night he came to me to discuss the changes in his body. It was a frank and explicit conversation. We talked about Ellen the girl he is sorta dating. At 13 I told him he don't need to hide his interest to her from us. She is apparently going through the same thing as him expected at 13. He also was afraid that the voice change would cost him when trying out for "Richard the 5th." I told him he sounds like Christopher Lee (he does) and to do his best!
 

Rikki

High Priestess
It was my turn to talk to Chris. He outlined some events in his life. I reminded him that he was 13. This is a time when his sexuality is starting to form. I told him to avoid any intimate contact until he was older. I reminded him again that his older sisters and brother waited until they were at least 17. It's a very wise move to wait. I advised him to keep Ellen as a friend and not act on the moment.
At 13 he like his brother at that age is showing independent desires.I just hope Ian can help Shepard him in the right direction.
Blessed be
Rikki
 

Rikki

High Priestess
It is with deep sadness I must inform all my sweet mother passed away today. I helped her transition but the pain of my loss is great
Blessed. Be
Rikki
 

The shadow

The shadow knows!
I'm broken I'm hurt beyond measure my family has suffered a tremendous loss..
Rikki and I will take a day or so off forums
 

Todd Feinman

Dogs are angels that poop in your yard.
So very sorry to hear your mother has passed away, Rikki. Condolences to you and Shadow and your family.
 

nivek

As Above So Below
With deepest sympathy in this time of sorrow...Our love and thoughts go out to you and your family...Wishing you comfort and strength to face the days and weeks ahead...

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The shadow

The shadow knows!
Kate was with her and Rikki when she left us.
Rikki called Debbie via Zoom. She took it hard. As for the rest of the kids we will tell them when they get home..
 
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