Well I've learned to stay away from the detached Ida. Some are too far gone down the rabbit hole to know which way is up and if they come across a rabbit they eat it fur and all. I can walk away from a fight with my dignity intact but when offering help and attacked, a natural surge occurs. Too much of a swing in emotion to give time for reasoning and the words flow. So now I cross the street when ever one pings on my radar and if I'm approached by one, which happens a lot around here, I snub them, not a word as this creates the openning they want. Well you take care with approaching the twisted, reality is subject to the individuals circumstance.