Sorry but we're losing sight of the real issues here -- your stepdaughter is pregnant and a decision needs to be made about what her next move will be. When you get right down to it, her and her friend's sexuality is pretty irrelevant at this point.
Right now, It's so early, We know decisions must be made about the two of them, Jordan is keeping the baby of corse, But we don't want to force her into a relationship. Or make her feel like she is stuck with no choice, At this stage, it's not about Us and what we want. We want Jordan to know she is taken care of and any decision she makes right now is because it's what she wants. They seem to want to be with one another, It seems like that's where it's headed. But, No matter what Jordan chooses To be with the guy for real or not. That baby has plenty of grandparents who will see that she and the baby have no issues. It's still early, We are letting things develop, The plan is, To do everything as grandparents for Jordan and the baby. We have even been looking into getting her the house up the street, But we want it in her name only, He's been in her life a matter of months we aren't buying him a house.. you know? financially, She has nothing to worry about, Nor will the baby. But we don't want to make her feel forced to be with someone because she's pregnant.
The backdrop to all this is, They are 18, To be truthful, How many relationships begin like this at that age and do last for the long haul? We are planing her security of a future unless he doesn't stick around, It would honestly be silly to think he would when most cases like this end with a breakup. So, We are logically planing for a futureproof situation. If he sticks around, Good for him, Good for both of them, But. We have to Jordanproof her future.