Shadowprophet
Truthiness
I know you have all seen my stories about the things I've gone through. So it's not like I don't have my own sad stories. But I do try to be positive, If I'm sad it's not for long and it doesn't last.
I tend to avoid Dark depressing people, Especially people who want to share really sad stories wanting a lot of input from me. People think I'm cold for just brushing people off when they come to me with sad stories.
It's not a coldness. To me, I didn't sign up to be someone's Husband or Wife, Or their emotional support, We have all went through hard times. And when someone comes to me, Specifically talking about their hardships, And Wanting to put the spotlight on them, I can't help but think about all the BS I've been through with losing my Daughters. And then to hear some asshole who lost his girlfriend or his mother told him he was fat, It just feels like My emotions are being trampled on by these people.
No, I didn't sign up to any website anywhere to be sad all the time, If someone is even thinking of approaching me with some sort of sad story,. Don't get mad at me for being ignored.
This is a community, To inflict your emotions upon it, especially of those emotions are burdens. Is Simply Wrong, I know I've done it myself, And humans are human. I'm not saying don't ever do it. But I am saying if that's your Mo, If you are this person All the time, Then you are Toxic to a community.
People may think, Damn that's cold shadow, No, It's not cold, If we stop and feel sad for everyone who is sad, We will never feel what happy feels like, We all need to know when to turn our heads and tune someone out.
I tend to avoid Dark depressing people, Especially people who want to share really sad stories wanting a lot of input from me. People think I'm cold for just brushing people off when they come to me with sad stories.
It's not a coldness. To me, I didn't sign up to be someone's Husband or Wife, Or their emotional support, We have all went through hard times. And when someone comes to me, Specifically talking about their hardships, And Wanting to put the spotlight on them, I can't help but think about all the BS I've been through with losing my Daughters. And then to hear some asshole who lost his girlfriend or his mother told him he was fat, It just feels like My emotions are being trampled on by these people.
No, I didn't sign up to any website anywhere to be sad all the time, If someone is even thinking of approaching me with some sort of sad story,. Don't get mad at me for being ignored.
This is a community, To inflict your emotions upon it, especially of those emotions are burdens. Is Simply Wrong, I know I've done it myself, And humans are human. I'm not saying don't ever do it. But I am saying if that's your Mo, If you are this person All the time, Then you are Toxic to a community.
People may think, Damn that's cold shadow, No, It's not cold, If we stop and feel sad for everyone who is sad, We will never feel what happy feels like, We all need to know when to turn our heads and tune someone out.