Conclusion: guy needs to be very big, and girl needs to be very small.
That girls is just too heavy. She needs a guy who's at least Michael Jordan size.
If you don't love you don't hurt. Beloved animal companions will take you there, for sure. One of the hardest places to be, but worth it if you can give another loving being a good life, even if it is a short one.My new motto,
If you don't love, don't hurt.