GhostofBiedny
Celestial
I’ve been told a few times that asking for financial help online is a bad thing, even though lots of people do it for different reasons.
People may ask for help online but:
1. Those people don't have a "temporary" crisis that lasts 12 years.
2. Those crises can't simply be solved by those people living within their means.
3. Those people usually do everything they can to help themselves before begging for help and that includes doing a real job that they might otherwise consider "beneath" them.
4. They are not professional squatters who have a history of scamming people out of rent, falsifying leases using their son's name, actively raising funds for a man and a company which robbed elderly people and then slandering those same victims for seeking restitution.
5. People who try to raise money under false pretences end up being prosecuted for fraud.
No you clearly do take joy in sending them because you have been doing it for 12 years and now you are doing it multiple times a day.I take no joy in sending these messages. It’s a matter of the situation and the lack of alternatives.
The idea that you have any kind of hesitation before sending these things out is so incongruent with your behaviour as to be laughable. Just because you are a moron don't presume everyone else is.
You could do an actual real job, stop overspending and just generally act like a responsible adult but you just don't bother because you think this scam is a viable way of making money.
Nobody is moved by your fake stories of woe. Either get a job and sort out your own problems or live on the street.
The only people I feel sorry for are the people you and your late BIL scammed, the poor suckers who still send you money and your dog - you are clearly the last person on earth who should be responsible for looking after a pet.