All sorts of drama circulating from several directions and I say fookitall, at least for one night
Boy you aren't kidding either, hitting from several directions and levels, it's astonishing really...I have been in so much pain since Sunday on top of everything else going on, I said fookit last night and slammed down a bunch of beers, I think I passed the damned thing last night as a result...No pain at all this morning, except a lingering headache from all the other crap going on I'm dealing with, might have to make some cuts, just for my own peace of mind...
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Hopefully it did pass.
Cuts, as in employee terminations? Eeeee. That sucks - but the kidney stone is still waaaaay up higher on the list of things that suck ........
How concerned are you about getting another job, or will you be starting your own business?That didn't set well with me and couldn't accept it so I walked
How concerned are you about getting another job, or will you be starting your own business?
Crap! Wasn’t reading this carefully enough. Knew you were unhappy but hadn’t realized you left.No not employee cuts, I don't have a job currently, not after they took 20 percent of our salaries in a salary reduction scheme...That didn't set well with me and couldn't accept it so I walked...
No by cuts I mean cutting out some things going on that are touching my life and certain people who are inadvertently bringing down everyone and everything around them as a result...Perhaps it's all just deadwood that needs to be cut anyway and current conditions are making me realize it more so for what it is than I did before, I don't know...Hurts though because I care and everything else I tried to do to help has failed to help...
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What is the possibility that the owner realizes he needs you there and he relents and restores your pay and position?No not employee cuts, I don't have a job currently, not after they took 20 percent of our salaries in a salary reduction scheme...That didn't set well with me and couldn't accept it so I walked...
No by cuts I mean cutting out some things going on that are touching my life and certain people who are inadvertently bringing down everyone and everything around them as a result...Perhaps it's all just deadwood that needs to be cut anyway and current conditions are making me realize it more so for what it is than I did before, I don't know...Hurts though because I care and everything else I tried to do to help has failed to help...
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What is the possibility that the owner realizes he needs you there and he relents and restores your pay and position?
There's one other element, I have been helping a family for some time financially, friends who have had it much much harder...Easily a third of my salary has been going to their behalf and that cannot and will not cease, I'd rather not post details of their situation but things are slowly improving for them and eventually they'll be back on their own feet again but not now...I'll be ok but I don't want to wait too long before taking another job, however a little break from all that is nice...From what I know of you, Nivek, you're single with no kids and you were making 6 figures at your job. I'm thinking you can easily afford to take some time off between jobs.
This sounds like a guy who would cut off his nose in spite of his face. PS... I would get all restored money etc. in writing so this prick won’t back out in a weeks time.I have considered that possibility, I recently inquired about someone else who also walked because of that salary adjustment scheme, someone who was immensely needed and he has not received that offer...If I were to get a call and offer of pay restoration, I would accept and return to work, the resoration would have to be effective immediately and reimbursement for the lost percentage taken from the previous pay deposit which set the stage for these events...
There's one other element, I have been helping a family for some time financially, friends who have had it much much harder...Easily a third of my salary has been going to their behalf and that cannot and will not cease, I'd rather not post details of their situation but things are slowly improving for them and eventually they'll be back on their own feet again but not now...I'll be ok but I don't want to wait too long before taking another job, however a little break from all that is nice...
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I have considered that possibility, I recently inquired about someone else who also walked because of that salary adjustment scheme, someone who was immensely needed and he has not received that offer...If I were to get a call and offer of pay restoration, I would accept and return to work, the resoration would have to be effective immediately and reimbursement for the lost percentage taken from the previous pay deposit which set the stage for these events...
There's one other element, I have been helping a family for some time financially, friends who have had it much much harder...Easily a third of my salary has been going to their behalf and that cannot and will not cease, I'd rather not post details of their situation but things are slowly improving for them and eventually they'll be back on their own feet again but not now...I'll be ok but I don't want to wait too long before taking another job, however a little break from all that is nice...
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